3 Days of Christmas - Ratanakiri style.
Christmas Eve.
Managed a lie-in till 7am which was great. We decided to hit the market for shopping before breakfast as it was still cool. We needed the essential Christmas food items such as papaya, pomelo, healthy chef cooking oil and eggs!
After a late breakfast we did some cleaning and washing the red dust layer off everything again, then friends arrived for an afternoon of making our own decorations and then the best bit...
we took them to the local bar to put up. This was extremely thirsty work so we all had a few drinks.

Christmas Day.
Maroesjka and Tania arrived at 8.30 am for a super breakfast, which consisted of apple muesli, scrambled eggs, baked beans, tomatoes and bacon which Dave managed to buy from a local restaurant, pomelo and orange juice, tea and coffee and gorgeous Dutch bread and ginger biscuits from Maroesjka. this was the most food I have eaten since being here and my tummy hurt all day.
At noon we packed some food and went to Yak Loam for a shared picnic and a swim in the lake. Our group consisted of 3 Aussies, 2 Koreans, 1 Filipino, 3 Brits and 1 Dutch and 1 Cambodian.
Back home for a shower and change then off at 6pm for the party with buffet in the local bar. A great evening with good food and great friends.
Boxing Day
Back to normal with a big bump. No such thing as Christmas here of course so was back at my desk at 7.30am.

November blog

One week in November


Sunday 6 Nov

Up early as David had promised to take Sothia on a farewell outing to the border with Vietnam. Sothia is a nurse from Korea who is working as a school nurse in one of the schools David works in. She is leaving after a two year stay but is being replaced by an equally nice girl called Sun-ne. After a damp, drizzly start the weather improved and we had a good motorbike run there and back. We finished the day with a Korean meal at Sothias house that she had prepared as authentically as possible. It was good, lots of vegetables but very spicy hot, also dried seaweed and two different varieties of pickled cabbage.
Monday7 Nov
A videographer and a journalist are with us at work today from VSO Canada. They are trying to recruit more donors and more volunteers and are preparing stories and film from volunteers already here. It was a busy day and strange being in the classroom delivering a lesson on gender equality through an interpreter as well as having these two guys either scribbling away in the corner or shooting film close up! The teacher and the kids all 51of them loved it. We finished the day by taking them to the bar we have just found with a great view and cheap jugs of beer. Yes, after all those years of not liking beer I am now drinking Angkor with lots of ice just like all the locals do.

Tuesday 8 Nov

We have a very important 3 day holiday starting tomorrow so it was hectic trying to get all my VSO accounts in order ready to send with another volunteer to PP. Remember , no postal system here! Everything I need I have to request the cash, then spend and then do monthly accounts. Every time we do any training or hold a workshop we have to pay travel, lunch as well as buy all the resources needed, so it’s a lot of dollars to account for. Finally, I finished and rushed off to meet Sam and Gilly - two really lovely VSO volunteers working in Kratie (home of the fast disappearing Irrawaddy dolphins) who are visiting Ratanakiri for the water festival with Gilly’s parents from the UK. We ended up having dinner with them and catching up with all the latest VSO news and stories.

Wednesday 8 Nov

The big water festival celebrations in PP have been cancelled this year due to the heavy monsoon rains and flood damage to the farming communities. Over 270people have lost their lives too – we all hope the money reserved for the celebrations will be diverted to help those in need as the PM has promised.

I had a lovely, lazy morning at home and then went to another volunteers house for an afternoon of tea and chat. In the evening we went with Sam and Gilly on our motos to one of the local Tampoun villages where one of the elders is also called Sam. Elder Sam was so excited to meet someone with the same name ( very unusual in Tampoun culture) he wanted to adopt him into his family.We had a really fascinating time as this was the only house in the village with a small generator which they started when we arrived. About 35 village children all arrived to watch TV whilst we ate rice and the sacrificed chicken with a very hot aubergine dish. Then we had to make special prayers to the spirits and finally drink the rice wine which is in a clay jar with one plastic pipe to suck up – all shared around of course! We also received a thread bracelet each from the Elders wife. It was a very special event and we were very pleased to be included. Especially as, luckily, we suffered no dire effects the next day.



Thursday 9 Nov
No swimming at the lake this week. For the first time in living memory the lake is covered in algae and declared not fit for swimming. The Tampoun people have prayed to the spirits and sacrificed a pig so it should be ok in another week we are told. So I had to pay to use the only swimming pool in town at the swanky hotel “Terra Rouge”. Still, it was very nice and I spent all morning in the water and came out prune like at 1pm. Sam and Gilly came to say farewell for 4pm tea and Sothia came for a farewell meal. We finished off the busy day by taking out homemade boat with its offerings of fruit, money, a lit candle and cake down to the lake in the town to send it on its way to the spirits in the lake with our wishes. It was pretty hectic there with everyone and his wife out, eating, drinking, watching, throwing fireworks into the crowd. No regard to H and S here at all –even young teenagers selling the fireworks.



Friday Nov 10

Up early and ready for a long motorbike trip with two other volunteers. We were off to Lumphat. This is one of the remote districts in Ratanakiri and used to be the capital town of the province until the Khymer Rouge moved it in 1975. Now there is little to see but a few B52 bomb craters if you hunt in the scrub. However, the river (Tonle Srepok) is the one used in the filming of Apocalyse Now and we took a picnic to have on the banks of the river. The journey was demanding in places as they were filling in giant potholes after the rainy season – no signs warning you of roadworks, you just have to find a way round the heavy machinery. On the way home trying to find a shortcut I fell off for the first time trying to balance the bike going uphill on a track no wider than the tyre width between 2 large ruts on either side. Luckily I was going very slow and just fell over on my left side. Needless to say we abandoned the short cut and went home via the road works.

Saturday Nov 11
Lazy morning at home cleaning and cooking – trying to make spring rolls from scratch! Taste ok but don’t look too neat.

At 4pm we went to another volunteers house where a few of us had made a selection of dips and then were going to have a drink, a few dips and a beer and watch the sunset. They were so delicious we sat at the table inside and we all scoffed the lot! We had 3 varieties of salsa, tzakkihi, spring rolls, hummous, aubergine with chilli, garlic mayonnaise, toasted bread, oil and vinegar dip, carrot and cucumber sticks. We missed the sunset but there was a glorious night sky with beautiful moonlight reflecting on the lake as we drove home.
Finally, it seems at long last that the rainy season is over. Its bright blue sky and sun again but with a breeze. We must be getting used to it as its now 29 C indoors and it is feeling just like a nice warm day.

September - work and fun

Work and play has been very busy this month as we have been short staffed at work and no supply teachers here either! School officially begins on the 3 October but we went to many last week and no teachers so maybe this week!
I have organised and run 7 school enrolment campaigns and 3 workshops which has been very hectic as well as having a week off for a big Budddhist holiday called Chum Ben. This has meant for 15 days the monks have woken us with thir chanting  and drums fom 3am to midnight!! Since it has stopped we are now woken by rats which are coming in the houses to escape the rain. Although noisy they do at least stay in the space between the two wooden walls.

So here are a few snapshots of us over the past month -

This is the office where I work and this is one of the workshops in full swing. 20 teachers and school directors all making primary literacy resources. Never thought I knew enough about primary, thank goodness for all those lesson observations I did at Finborough.

This was the playground of the first enrolment campaign and things didn't get better.

Water buffalo- the size in the picture is deceiving-it's huge! 

Pigs in the playground -well at least they eat all the rubbish that gets throw away here.

Here you can see we were trying to keep out of the mud, but it is so slippery. Well, I was walking around the Tampoun (an indigenous group) village and it was campaign no 6 and I was doing well. S'reyden the girl in blue gave me a fruit to try and the next thing I am on my bum in the mud! Luckily, nothing was too injured but I was very sore for a week.

Every campaign starts with grouping in the playground, then a march around the village telling everyone through loudspeakers to enrol. It ends back at school and we provide snacks and water for all. My favourite moment was when a mum with a child of about 8/9 arrived to enrol and the School Director told her he was to busy to enrol her as he was busy holding the campaign. I hope she came back!

Holiday time -

Laos was really good, we went with Lucita(Phillipines) and her husband Yasir(Pakistan). We packed a rucksack each and travelled by local bus which was quite an experience. We travelled from our town to near the border on one bus and then got this sleeping bus to the capital city Vientiane. It didn't quite work out and we had to spend one night in the bus station guesthouse - not one to go in Lonely Planet.

We had the top bunk.It was a great experience - just ruined by the horrid toilet, which they then locked so no-one could use!

Vientiane was lovely, but very hot and humid - thought I was used to it by now. This gate was built by the French and we climbed the 200 steps to the top to see the views over the city and the Mekong.





Local transport



So finally, back to Ban Lung and home again, which was nice - we really have a lovely home.

Rainy season in full swing

Imma, Maroesja, Erin and Janet

This month started with a super party for Imma (Spanish) who is leaving for another posting. She has been working here for 3 years with a Spanish NGO who are trying to work with issues such as gender equality and domestic violence. Erin and Maroesja decided to wear traditional Khymer tops but I could not cope with all that bling!! I will miss Imma but she has left me a great stock of lentils. 



This is my moto parked at work.



The rainy season got off to a slow start which gave me time to practice my skills at riding in red mud!

It is so slippery and there is a big big puddle at the end of the road- too deep for motos so we have to go down and up through a ditch! This is not too scary if you attack at the right angle, but this week a big scary dog has decided to attack me at the same time as I attempt the ditch. So far, it has only grabbed my clothes! But this week the rain has really begun and it is quite dangerous driving at times.



Rainy weather gear (note the rolled up trousers).





Local Ladies outside our house this morning.
I am not sure what they are picking. the rain and the warm weather makes sure everything grows so fast. This was bare scorched earth just a few weeks ago.  Now it is like a jungle.

This is my last posting until I return from annual leave in August. So I hope to see many of you soon.



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June 2011

Beside the sea on a windy day at Kep

Deserted properties left from the KR days

Kep crab market



Most days we had the pool to ourselves



Kep

This month has just disappeared so fast. We eventually took a week off and travelled over 800k from the far north where we live to the south and the sea. First time we have seen the sea since last August Bank Holiday when our good friends Carol and Kenny took us out for the day as a farewell gift. It took us over 14 hours in 2 days with frantic mini bus drivers playing Khymer karoke music at full blast for hours on end. It was worth every hour of travel as Kep was cool and quiet and just what we needed to recharge the batteries. We also realised we should not have left it so long before taking a break. And the big bonus on the way home was that the new bridge is open which cuts 2 hours off our journey –but only for those drivers willing to pay the $5 corruption fee.


I thought I would just explain a day which is very typical. So this is yesterday Monday 27th June.

Woke at 4.30am with the monks chanting – think it was part of a 3 day ceremony for someone who has died! Had a restless night as the wind got up and I had to shut the bedroom windows which means struggling with the mosquito screen first. Then the rats in the ceiling space were especially noisy. Up at 5.45am for a cup of tea on the balcony (yes that’s me drinking tea). Then bread lady arrived shouting “nom pain” and Dave trundles to the gate to buy 2 sugary loaves for 8p each. Really nice with a cup of coffee for breakfast. Whilst having coffee I realised that something was going on over the road – the children were not getting ready for the 7am school start but were playing in the yard. I realised that Mum was inside having her 4th baby.

Off to work at 7.20am and a short 5 minute ride on my moto trying to avoid the mad dog that chases my bike and going up and over the ditch to avoid the huge puddle at the end of the road. Arrive at work at the same time as Narin my VA and we plan our day. First off to the bookshop to get some printing done for my school inspection on Weds. Back to the office to find only 1 of my 3 co –workers are working here today ,then a colleague from the inspection dept arrives to tell me the inspection is off as Unicef arrive tomorrow for a big 5day training session and all school directors will be there!! Why such short notice – it still really annoys me that anything I plan can be cancelled at short notice as there seems to be no communication or planning in advance. So spend the rest of the morning re-packing and sellotaping together the 28 boxes a of Literacy

reading scheme for ages 5-8 which is put on hold whilst we introduce the numeracy scheme first. Of which only 3 boxes arrive. These boxes have travelled in an open truck for 560k and arrive broken and wet. Spend the next hour making frantic e-mails to secure donor funding so we can put on some training for schools as we plan in July. Will we get the funding or will I be sitting and making 100 number cards or flashcards with Khymer numerals?

Home for lunch at 11.30 but first I have to do the daily clothes washing which consists of washing with my feet the clothes I have soaked overnight in a bucket. Then hanging them up outside one of the bedroom windows and hoping they dry at this time of the year.

Lunch consists of bread today, a cheese slice each (great luxury item here) and some chopped avocado with tomato and onion. Followed, by a beautiful, large, fresh, locally grown pineapple and some rambutans. After a 30 minute read of an old Guardian Weekly dated March 17th from another volunteer it was 2pm and back to work. Everybody here this afternoon for a big team meeting as we have to put on a 2-day workshop on gender equality and advocacy(for over 120 delegates) in 2 weeks’ time. Lots of heated discussion as you will expect from 4 different nationalities, ages and experience. Then just as we were about to go home at 5pm there was a huge thunderstorm and I expected my washing to have blown away. I just had to wait and sit it out. “Oh no”. I have left my plastic yellow, disposable raincoat under the motos seat so I get wet just putting it on.

Luckily all was ok apart from being extra wet again. The family downstairs tell me that the woman across the road had another baby boy at 6am. Two families with 5 children between them live in this one room shack. She had her baby with no ante natal care, no hospital to turn to, no pain relief and just a traditional birth attendant from the village present as well as the all the families and children who never moved out. Are you reading this Emily!! I will never again complain about the care we get in the UK

Finally, after a shandy on the balcony with Dave I begin to cook dinner. Stir –fry vegetables with rice. Make the stir-fry and begin to cook the rice –what are all those black bits? Weevils again! So throw it out and end up with stir fry veg and spaghetti from my limited supply of goodies. It is not a nice combination. But washed down with my extra strong de-worming pills and a glass of water it is time for bed and at last the plumber has mended our pump for the shower and I have my first shower for nearly two weeks. Bliss.

6.30am and bread lady arrives in her pyjamas - normal working wear for women here.

April 2011

This month has been dominated by noise, funerals and lack of electricity. This of course is all happening in the hottest months of the year.
Noise- why, oh why is this such a NOISEY country!! I wake up to wedding or funeral music at 4.30 most days and go to bed with the sound of Karaoke noise or wedding music which carries on past midnight. The music to announce weddings or funerals is on tape and goes on for at least 3 days and is blasted from the home of the event.Now we have so little electricity the noise of the generators trying to pump water from the wells is adding to my list of  noise problems.
Funerals - last week a chap from the Office of Education died (he had been ill a long time and I never met him). I was invited to go and pay my respects to the family on the same day and went with my VA. I was ushered upstairs and onto the balcony where a man was reading prayers into the loud speakers - of course! I thought I was going to meet the family instead as I went into the room I realised he was laid out on the floor and only covered with a thin cloth like net curtaining. My VA told me to kneel at his feet and light 3 incence sticks and say a prayer! It was quite a surprise and probably better I was not warned in advance. After that I had to light some paper money and throw it it a pot close by to burn then it was downstairs to eat biscuits and drink water by the loudspeakers for a while.
On Friday I had to attend a 100 day ceremony since the last funeral I attended when another of my colleagues got run over by a car which crashed into the party tent on the road outside his house. The ironic thing was the funeral tent was erected in the same place he died and we sat under the tent in same place on the road! Funeral food is always the same too- water or fizzy green fanta to drink, rice porridge with pork and beansprouts and finaaly the biscuits which taste like iced gems without the icing. And, just like weddings you are expected to pay for this privlige. However, as there is no pension scheme the money goes to support the family.
On Sunday I then had to attend the funeral of the man who died last week. Such a busy social scene her!!
This meant going to the home, standing in the full sun in line for 30 mins facing the coffin whilst prayers and speeches were read out. Then the coffin was cumbersomely loaded onto the monkmobile and we processe3d behind on our motobikes at a slow pace. There were at least 150 bikes all going at less than 10k an hour so I am glad that my skills are good enough to do this now as it was quite mayhem at times. We arrived at the Wat and the ceremony was quite brief at the graveside - we did not enter the Wat the hardest thing for me is that we had to squat for the prayers and this is so tough on my knees.
Finally, yesterday after work I attended the 7 day ceremony  and a repeat of the fanta and rice porridge. Hooray as my ears are so sore from the horrendous chanting and piped funeral music.
Electricity - or lack of! Ratanakiri cannot produce enough of its own and during the dry season the hydro electric power is not strong enough. They have spent the winter months putting new lines in from Vietnam and the switch over was meant to be from the middle of April. Something has seriously gone wrong and we have had very sporadic electricity since then. Yesterday it was off from 7am and has not been switched back on in our home area. There are 7 different areas in this small town so only a few places have elec. on at any one time. No one has any information and everyone except us Westerners seem to accept this. This is of course in the hottest months with temperatures in the mid 30s and very humid. So no fans, no pumping water from the wells to have in the house and no way to keep food for more than a few hours. Shopping in the covered market in these temperatures is no fun either. David has been very good at this but his enthusiasm is defiantly wavering.
The best part of April was when I travelled half way to Phnom Penh to meet my niece Sarah who was travelling for a short time and was passing through on her way to Thailand. We had a very busy couple of days and I tried to show her a piece of the real Cambodia as well as catchong up with all the news. It was so good to see her but made me a little sad as it was just like being with Lucy and Emily again.
However, we still enjoy life here and this is just part of being in a different world but work is good, very busy for both of us at the moment and we also have a really good social life and we are never lonely. There is no time we have wished we were not in Cambodia.

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March 2011



Another good use for rice sacks.



Sports Day.2011. Borkeo District

The first time 3-legged races were held in this province as far as we know



This is the school in the background - its a Lower Secondary School for grades 7-9

 Here are the pictures from Sports Day that I was unable to publish last month.
A big thank you to Clare? London VSO who has read this blog and sent David some sports equipment. Hope I am being a good girl with the accounts of life here in Cambodia and  writing  my monthly reports to everyone back home!

Jumping - it was too dangerous to attempt high or long jump - have you seen the ground and footwear worn?

March has been very eventful and sadly we missed the wedding of Anna, daughter of some very good friends Carol and Kenny. I have seen a few pictures and it seems they had a fabulous day.
Good luck and happiness in your new life Anna and Chris.

I have been to Phnom Penh for almost 2 weeks in March - firstly to an education meeting for all VSO volunteers and then for another 6 days of extensive language training which was very hard for me - some of our group were very good and to me they sound pretty fluent. I am still on 2/3/4 words in a sentence! I was brave enough this time to borrow a bicycle to get around so that I could shop, meet friends and sight see. The traffic is awful as I have remarked before there are no rules except for size, and a cycle comes last.
We were a brilliant group that arrived together in Sept and it was so good to catch up with all the news. We come from very different backgrounds, careers and ages but had great fun together.I am sure VSO realise that some life long friends will be made with this experience of in-country training for 7 weeks at the start of placements.
Our group all stayed in the accommodation above the programme office and it was decided that we would hold our own "Come Dine With Me" competition over 4 nights. We set a few rules such as $2 per person and cooking in pairs. The whole 4 nights of cooking and eating and scoring were filmed and Ingran a very talented film director is at this moment editing hours of film to produce a version we can show to all. So watch this space. Ingran by the way has a day job of being a paediatrician in Stung Treng Province. I won't tell you any more except to say my good friend from Yorkshire Kath, who is working with the Cambodian Midwives Ass. and I won on the final evening with our "dress up and eat posh food" do. Some complained we could not have made a 4 course meal for $2 per person but as we all know experience wins through!

Our other good news is that VSO and CARE have got together and found a brilliant job for Dave. He is now a proper recognised volunteer with an allowance. he works 3 days a week for CARE and 1 day a week in a school as an unpaid volunteer. Thank you VSO and CARE.
His project is to promote sport and in particular girls leadership through sport in 6 remote schools within the indigenous population. Some days he works in the CARE office and we go off in the mornings together on our motos with laptops in bags across our shoulders. What a difference a year can make to our lives.

At the end of March I held a 3 day workshop for 30 contract teachers - these are teachers who have completed only 3 years of school themselves!! Can you believe it? But there is such a shortage of teachers in this province and these are better than no teachers, actually they seem fairly dedicated compared with some of the qualified teachers I have met. This is hot, sweaty me presenting one of the teachers with a chalk board to use in the classroom. they were so pleased. There are 116 contract teachers in this province. They only get paid after one year and recieve may be $100.

This is the view from our balcony - each morning the monk and his caller come to ask for alms .About 7.30am.



Whilst I was in PP David attended the wedding of Paul from Australia to a Khymer girl. This picture is of April May a girl from the Phillipines who is working for Health Unlimited here in Ban Lung.

This is Narin my translator. He is building his own house and Dave has been helping him - last week they were concreting the base, all mixed by hand of course and no tools. We needed you Kenny!



Sports Day Press Report

Thsi is the press release fron the sports day which has been sent to the donors of VSO and CARE. We have loads of pictures but for some reason I cannot upload them. I think it must be the dust which is getting into everything after 4 months of no rain. David had a really good day and I was sorry I was not able to be there as had to travel to Phnom Penh in a hurry with tooth ache. Its OK now! A big thanks to Erin (VSO Canada) for all her ideas and help too.

February 21st 2011
Borkeo Lower Secondary School Sports Day. Ratanakiri Province.

120 pupils enjoyed their first ever sports event on this hot, windy Monday morning.
10 volunteers from VSO and CARE arrived after a 30k motor-bike ride from the provincial capital of Ban Lung to help run the event and organise the races.
The students were aged between 9 and 24 and were a combination of boys and girls, day and boarding pupils and Khymer and indigenous people.
The sporting events began at 8am with the school dividing into 4 teams – blue, green, pink and yellow. The first event was 80m races quickly followed by a volleyball tournament. Other events included long jump, 3 legged race, sack race, throwing a boot the furthest. Plenty more running races were held throughout the morning.

The students had great fun and entered into the spirit of the occasion in a grand way. Yellow team were the overall winners and were presented with a identification ribbon for them to wear at school. However, all students who participated were given a small prize.
Grateful thanks to VSO for the resources and CARE for the prizes.

It has been a very busy month and I feel this week that at last I am working appropriately. I worked on a literacy strategy for grade 3 pupils this week and also organised and ran the first inspection of a school with 430 pupils aged 5 -9. It was really interesting and so different to Ofsted!! I learnt that it is a very important regulation in schools that all maps must be displayed on a north facing wall and that every school should have a map of Cambodia even though they might not have anything else. I have also put in a bid for some funding to train teachers who are not qualified properly. Here, if you have your grade 3(age 7-8) certificate you can teach! I have just heard my proposal has been accepted as long as everything is completed in 2 weeks before the end of the financial year. So lots to do.

Well, its nearly 8pm here on a Saturday evening after a very busy week. I have just practised making pancakes with rice flour and dried milk (thanks Cynthia) as we are having a pancake party on Tuesday evening. Can you imagine standing in the tiniest kitchen with a 2-ring calor-gas hob cooking pancakes in temps of 30+C? We ate as usual on the balcony watching the world go by and sharing the space with a family of lizards and geckos who live on the ceiling and behind shady spots such as the fridge. I can hear the big one making the loud noise - it sounds like the word gecko repeated. This morning we went out for coffee at our favourite place in town. Coffee and cake for two and all for $1.25 (under a pound).
 This week we have said goodbye to Erin from Canada who has been a good friend to us. I have travelled to some remote schools which I love doing - but this time there was a problem with my motor bike and we had to return to have it mended. Something wrong with the oil pump, I think - it was .instantly mended and had an oil change and all for $19. 

A very big thanks you to those of you who have sent parcels – they have been very gratefully received. I know more are on the way so we shall be looking out for them. David has just about enough equipment now to manage 3 days a week. The little treats have been so nice - please keep them coming if at all possible.


I am also sorry that I have been so lax in writing my blog but January has been really busy and I have had so many experiences it is impossible to write about them all – here’s a few of the exciting moments –

Christmas in Stung Treng

Lucy visiting for New Year

Going to S'reydens engagement party ( which began at 7.30am)

3 day Study tour with Khymer teachers to Kampong Cham

David starting a Frisbee Club at the stadium here in Ban Lung

Going to Siem Reap for a workshop for 3 days and taking 4 days to get there and back!

Holding a training day for School Directors on how to improve their management skills.

And finally, succumbing at last to the inevitable “tummy upset” but better now.

So, I shall say a little about one or two of the above.

Christmas was really nice to stay with friends, but as Christmas itself it felt so different we did not miss anything other than family and friends. On Christmas Day we went for a bicycle ride and to visit a silk worm factory which made the most beautiful silk garments. We also had lunch there and Dave had fish and chips. Or as the menu suggested fish and ships.

This is me on my way - 150k on dirt roads -we were filthy!
We had an amazing time with Lucy and Joe which went far too quickly. I learnt to carry her on the back of my motorbike . I never thought I would be taking my daughter out on a motorbike! However, after a few days she was on her own hired bike at the huge cost of $6 per day.

On the boat trip going to an indigenous village far away in the north of the province -a brilliant day.

Lucy drinking the iced coffee at the village shop while we waited till Joe had his puncture fixed.

 I really want to tell you about my bus trip to Siem Reap. I went with my VA Narin and the journey was not too bad as he acted as a buffer really. We had to spend the night in a guesthouse halfway and arrived in SR at mid afternoon the next day. However, the journey back I had to make by myself as he wanted to spend the weekend in SR. So here goes, I was told to wait outside the guesthouse at 7am and a minibus would take me to the bus station on the outskirts of SR. At 7.15 I was getting anxious as the bus was meant to leave at 7.30, so in faltering Khymer and lots of looking at my watch and pointing I explain. The boy picks up my bag and I follow him 500m down the road to a pick up point for the bus service. 2 people checked my ticket and told me to sit down. At 7.30 a mini bus stops and I am told to get on. The last man on has no seat -after checking tickets again I am told to get off! After a telephone call from the man who told me to sit, a mini bus arrives, I get on -we drive 500m to the corner and am told to get on the big bus which is late as its waiting for me! I then demand to sit in the seat I booked -seat 1. No luck so I go to the back crestfallen as my language was not understood this time. We set off and 10 mins later arrive at the big bus station in SR and I have to find the right one for my journey. Luck is with me as someone realises it might be me holding up the 7.30 to Kampong Cham and I get on the right bus and my seat is vacant. We set off at 8.55am and the bus is full.
The young man next to me is hot and sweaty and he sleeps on my shoulder all the way. the seat behind me is occupied by a grandmother, mother and her 3 children, in the seat opposite them  is an older man who gives himself a manicure and pedicure with nail clippers and the nails clipped off are flying over us all. The man sitting across the aisle insists on trying to practice his faltering English/French whilst wearing a hat, sunglasses and a mask ( very common here to keep out the dust). After an hour or so the air-con packs up and we drive along with the bus door open, forgot to tell you about the 3 men sitting in the steps by the bus door. It was so hot and dusty. When we arrived in Kampong Cham I had a cold shower for ages and then fell asleep. So no chance of getting up to no good whilst on my own!
The next day up again for the 7 hour mini-bus ride home, at least this was very uneventful.